Our culture is self-obsessed. But despite our near-narcissism, people are less content than ever. Why? Because we forget that joy comes from putting others first. Doing so requires us to live alert, listening for “heart drops,” hints from those who need a helping hand or a generous dose of encouragement. Living alert will enable you to scatter love, not to selfishly shout, “Hey! Look at me!” but to humbly implore, “Will you look at Him?”